My Performance Anxiety While Trying To Make A Baby

Our friend shares a story about all of the issues that surfaced when he and his wife stopped using condoms and started trying to conceive. A tale about performance anxiety while making a baby. Straight / Male / 32–36 / North America / Married “Billy and Lisa, sitting in a tree. K-I-S-S-I-N-G” “First comes love, then […]


I Have Herpes And There’s Nothing Shameful About it

Laureen talks about receiving her diagnosis and the journey she’s been on to melt the shame typically associated with being HSV2 positive. Straight / Female / 28–32 / North America / Single This post is about a personal story that is no longer personal. A year-and-a-half ago, on a plane from NY to LA, I […]


What 57 Young Adults Actually Did To Improve Their Sex Lives

No ‘experts’, no one-size-fits-all advice, just the truth about how to improve your sex life delivered straight from people like you, to you. Today we’re going to try something new. We are simply going to share what has brought real change to people’s sex lives and let the data speak for itself. Some of the ideas […]


She was 37, I was 23 — Reflections on nine years of marriage

Straight / Male / 32 / North America / Married / Nine years ago I got married. I was 23 and my partner, Chimene, was 37. Sometimes I get asked if I would recommend marriage for someone in their early 20s. I answer ‘no’ every time. But then again, I would rarely recommend marriage anyways. […]


28 Years Of Fighting My Body

Straight / Female / 28–32 / North America / Single Today our dear friend Giulia is courageously giving you an all access pass into her most intimate struggles with body image, anorexia, breast implants and eating disorders. Sadly, 91% of women are unhappy with their already beautiful bodies. She is doing this named, so let’s […]


What Strangers On The Internet Taught Me About Sex

Straight / Male / 29–34 / North America / Long-term Relationship / High speed internet access, especially for a teenage boy is a double edged sword. Sure, it does help with homework and technical literacy is pretty much as critical as actual literacy in the modern world, but when you’re a prepubescent, barely contained roiling […]


My name is Jordan and I’m a sex addict

Straight / Male / 28–32 / North America / Single “My name is Jordan, and I’m a sex addict.” As soon as the words left my mouth, I felt like a total impostor. The men and women seated around me, legs crossed and arms folded, draped over orange plastic chairs, would see right through me […]


Explorations of a Third Wheel

Bisexual / Female / 24–27 / North America / Single / Of all the things I anticipated from my first threesome, it definitely didn’t include psychoanalyzing the universe of polyamory mid-strip. Or that I would be thinking about gender roles mid-cunnilingus. As any lifelong over-thinker will tell you, even multiple orgasms won’t always calm down […]


What breast cancer and menopause at 30 have taught me about sex and body image

saved from Straight / Female / 28–32 / North America / Long-Term Relationship Welcome to another cambyo story. Subscribe to our newsletter so you can continue on your journey of intimacy development. This is our friends story about getting breast cancer at 30 and how that has affected her thoughts on sex and body […]


My GF and I went to one of NY’s biggest sex parties

Heteroflexible / Male / 28–32 / North America / Poly Relationship / Today, we have a fun cambyo story to share with you. There are many ways to explore, have fun and get a little crazy, one particular way is to attend a sex party. A word of warning — in this particular story, the guy takes […]